A tree that lives at the edge of the forest. Taking care of the stand, yet looking outside to feel the momentary dance of butterflies over the meadow.
január 25, 2009
last week
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While trying to get our son ready to get into his next type of education smoothly he was caught by some sort of a viral disease. Not only he stayed at home, he had visions and felt dizzy and had a bad cough. Once he started mocking his little sister again we knew he was on the way to health again. He's not over it yet, but chances are high that he'll be able to write his exam this Thursday.
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My daughter was sick last weekend - literally, she was in bed all day, with a small bucket at hand, yes, to gather all that exited her mouth. And she did behave so orderly, the poor girl.
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Taking a heartful look at last week's events, I have to reckon with the troubled conversation I had on skype with someone I met through the online game I play.
I did something carelessly (as it later turned out) he highly disapproved and his sudden lack of trust towards me shocked me more than I had ever expected. We talked for more than two hours to make things clear. Don't worry - I'm not going to bore wou with details and such, but...
I've learned a lot and I owe a great deal to him to still have our friendship. He gave me a great lesson about acceptance and generousity.
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So the renovations are going on slowly...
My husband has taken on a new path in his (non paid) career - perhaps more to come on that later on...
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I do follow your blogs, commenting less often than I should...
only to find Vesper's two nice and thought provoking poems today: and here's my response - take it as a moral, if you please:
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do not fear the shadows
for when there is none, the light is gone
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január 17, 2009
január 08, 2009
contest time at Jason's
január 04, 2009
Happy 2009!
I told you it was short.
This short.
Cheers,
SzF.
december 28, 2008
a Hungarian Christmas
All questions are welcomed.
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Chicken, stuffed with minced goods, fresh from the oven. For garnishment, baked potatoes and sauteéd red cabbage are served. A hearty meat, a warmful companion for the harsh winter weather outside.
This is our small Christmas tree on Christmas eve. We keep it in the large container outside throughout the year and bring it inside for the festivity. This means the plant lives as a normal container-raired tree except for the period between 24 December and 6 January.
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december 15, 2008
our house
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Same phase of building, opposite angle. Note the iron door to the iron box. Note how small the hole that leads to the bathroom now is, as compared to photo #1.
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The end product, our mighty stove. Admire.
I hope you liked this guided tour... :)
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in other news, I feel the strong urge to return to the blogosphere again. Just today I resigned from an important (imaginary) post in the online MMRPG that took me in a few months ago. More about that, perhaps, later. Or never. Whatever. It's great to be here again.
november 24, 2008
The 99-meme
24. Built a snow fort
25. Held a lamb
26. Gone skinny dipping
32. Been on a cruise (not on a boat, though, it took place in a station wagon - does that count?)
33. Seen Niagara Falls in person
34. Visited the birthplace of your ancestors
35. Seen an Amish community
36. Taught yourself a new language
37. Had enough money to be truly satisfied
38. Seen the Leaning Tower of Pisa in person
39. Gone rock climbing
40. Seen Michelangelo’s David
41. Sung karaoke
42. Seen Old Faithful geyser erupt
43. Bought a stranger a meal in a restaurant
44. Visited Africa
45. Walked on a beach by moonlight (I even entered the sea at night. Back then I feared water. The experience was a bit frightening)
52. Kissed in the rain
53. Played in the mud
54. Gone to a drive-in theater
55. Been in a movie
56. Visited the Great Wall of China
57. Started a business
60. Served at a soup kitchen
61. Sold Girl Scout Cookies
62. Gone whale watching
63. Gotten flowers for no reason (I don't even get them for reason - okay, that was a lie. But I don't get flowers as often as I'd like to)
64. Donated blood, platelets or plasma
65. Gone sky diving
66. Visited a Nazi Concentration Camp
67. Bounced a check
68. Flown in a helicopter
69. Saved a favorite childhood toy
70. Visited the Lincoln Memorial
71. Eaten Caviar
72. Pieced a quilt
73. Stood in Times Square
74. Toured the Everglades
75. Been fired from a job
76. Seen the Changing of the Guards in London
77. Broken a bone
78. Been on a speeding motorcycle
79. Seen the Grand Canyon in person
80. Published a book (well, the time might come...just kidding here!)
81. Visited the Vatican
82. Bought a brand new car
83. Walked in Jerusalem
84. Had your picture in the newspaper (no, but my son had)
85. Read the entire Bible
86. Visited the White House
87. Killed and prepared an animal for eating (we have chicken, remember?)
88. Had chickenpox
89. Saved someone’s life
90. Sat on a jury
91. Met someone famous
92. Joined a book club
93. Lost a loved one
94. Had a baby
95. Seen the Alamo in person
96. Swam in the Great Salt Lake
97. Been involved in a law suit
98. Owned a cell phone
99. Been stung by a bee
november 06, 2008
The Holland Trip - Part Two: Köln II.
As for blogging, I lurk everywhere - only I do not find the time to write a proper post here.
október 25, 2008
The Holland Trip - Part One: Köln

The Dome was built in the center, or was it that all the rest of the city was built around the church, later on? The view from the river reveals that the Dome is jammed in among modern buildings. Some might find fascination in the meeting of the old and the new - but for me...it's rather sad. There is not enough room for the otherwise great building to show itself. It is prisoned in between a railway station, a modern music hall of some sort and other, rather ugly buildings.
And when I said the railway station was near, I meant it. See that red line of a train...?
And when you get really close to the Dome, there's another blasphemous act, this time by a shop that sells cameras, films and stuff like that.
I'll be back with less rambling and whining about, but with more interesting stuff...just wait and see...
október 18, 2008
- on schooling

október 07, 2008
Reflections of a summer
We found tha many of our young hens wished to have their own litter so they started brooding. Modern technologies de-select this ability and those unfortunate little chicken all hatch in incubators, without a caring mother. But there are many people, who keep animals the traditional way. It's their choice and ours as well. It does matter where and what you buy.
Older and non-purebreed varieties however, do tend to lay a certain number of eggs and then start sitting over the eggs. Below are two of our Japanese-mixed brooding hens with their respective little flock/litter (?)
The black one (called Korom) is the dominant. She and her chicks are being fed from a plate. The barred one (Pincebogár) approaches, and notices the food.
Pincebogár keeps coming closer but she is afraid. She's mimicking a fake attack, with wings streched out, she wishes to appear bigger than she really is. Korom does not seem to care about her at all. She is relaxed, she has absolutely no fear of the other hen.
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Baby chicken are extremely fragile. Their legs are like threads. From time to time, they fall asleep in the middle of any activity, as this one, while standing on the plate. This is normal.
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Summer also meant the continuation of the renovations in and around the house. I am standing here below in our kitchen-to-be, and mark where the electric outlets should be. Yes, those are arrows stuck into the ground. Those are supposed to mark where the sink, kitchen cabinets, and other utilities should be. We were playing a plan-a-kitchen, you know :). Practically speaking, I'm standing stand where the dishwasher will stand.

This is my DH, plastering the wall beside the front door, from the inside of the house. Note the ceiling. It's all hand made and wooden.
As for social activities, I had my 20 year high school class reunion. This photo was made in the restaurant. I am not on the photo. We had a nice quiet evening. It started with everyone telling his/her story of the past 20 years. Only classmates and former teachers were invited. Many of the class lives abroad, and one of them was here via a webcam from NYC. Zsuzsa was my best girlfriend in high school and now her husband (also Hungarian) is working at the Columbia University. She also studied and became a PhD in chemistry (was is physics?), but what with four kids...She's now an assistant to his husband. I miss her.
This is a close up of the dinner table - an all you can eat, partly supplied by us.szeptember 25, 2008
October forecast
szeptember 17, 2008
Bon appetit
1. Venison
2. Nettle tea (one of my favourite herb tea)
3. Huevos rancheros (it's almost like a normal ham and eggs)
4. Steak tartare
5. Crocodile
6. Black pudding (AKA Blood Sausage)
7. Cheese fondue
8. Carp
9. Borscht
10. Baba ghanoush
11. Calamari - no, but I have tasted shrimps. *shudders*
12. Pho (c'mon, it's broth with veggies!)
13. PB&J sandwich
14. Aloo gobi (basically it's potatoes with cauliflower, topped with cheese and baked in an oven. I'm sure to have made something similar.)
15. Hot dog from a street cart
16. Epoisses (we call them camambert cheese)
17. Black truffle
18. Fruit wine made from something other than grapes
19. Steamed pork buns
20. Pistachio ice cream
21. Heirloom tomatoes (what's the big deal?)
23. Foie gras (a.k.a. goose liver paté. It is traditional in Hungary.)
24. Rice and beans (what? why? why not?)
25. Brawn, or head cheese (again, this is traditional over here)
26. Raw Scotch Bonnet pepper
27. Dulce de leche (it's definitely on my to-do list)
28. Oysters
29. Baklava
30. Bagna cauda (as in #27. I love garlic)
31. Wasabi peas
32. Clam chowder in a sourdough bowl (one of my favourite when in a restaurant)
33. Salted lassi
34. Sauerkraut (a tradition for winter)
35. Root beer float
36. Cognac with a fat cigar
37. Clotted cream tea
38. Vodka jelly/Jell-O (why do these nasty things accummulate - 4 of them nasties in a row?)
39. Gumbo
40. Oxtail (it makes a brilliant soup)
41. Curried goat (goatmeat smells, I'm sorry)
42. Whole insects (whoa! Hell no!)43. Phaal - I have not yet tasted it, but I'm not a fan of really hot dishes.
44. Goat’s milk
45. Malt whisky from a bottle worth £60/$120 or more
46. Fugu
47. Chicken tikka masala (as in #27)
48. Eel
49. Krispy Kreme original glazed doughnut
50. Sea urchin
51. Prickly pear (see also No. 27. Unfortunately it is not grown in Hungary.)
53. Abalone
54. Paneer
55. McDonald’s Big Mac Meal
56. Spaetzle
57. Dirty gin martini (I think I had a gulp or two like ages ago. That was all)
58. Beer above 8% ABV
59. Poutine (as in No.21)
60. Carob chips
61. S’mores (the result of my google search made my stomach ache. Pffft.)
62. Sweetbreads (Ouch. I do eat liver, testicles, but this is waaay too much)
66. Frogs’ legs
67. Beignets, churros, elephant ears or funnel cake (I felt google just puked a picture of it onto my monitor. Blah. I'd rather stay hungry)
68. Haggis (Have not. Why not - a home-made real haggis can not be bad, after all.)
69. Fried plantain (I thought bananas were made sweet...)
70. Chitterlings, or andouillette (hmmmm....unsure. Some days I'd say yes.
71. Gazpacho (the best soup for a hot summer day)
72. Caviar and blini
73. Louche absinthe
76. Baijiu
77. Hostess Fruit Pie
78. Snail
79. Lapsang souchong
80. Bellini
81. Tom yum (I don't think I have tried it, but...why not?)
83. Pocky (I mean...are those edible?)
84. Tasting menu at a three-Michelin-star restaurant
85. Kobe beef (No, to my greatest sorrow. I'd love to, yes, yes!)
86. Hare
88. Flowers
89. Horse (horse meat is put into sausages, so, it's far too obvious again)
90. Criollo chocolate (I have not tried, but I'm a fan of pure chocolates)
91. Spam (uhm... are those edible?)
92. Soft shell crab
93. Rose harissa (looks/sounds like fun)
94. Catfish
95. Mole poblano (No encounters here as well, but the pictures look yummy)
96. Bagel and lox
97. Lobster Thermidor
98. Polenta
99. Jamaican Blue Mountain coffee
100. Snake
101. Cleansed intestines of a chicken in a soup. ***
102. Blackbird.***
szeptember 15, 2008
szeptember 10, 2008
eternal

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breathe in / breathe out
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szeptember 02, 2008
update with photos
There were vendors allowed in the area. This is a picture of a cake made especially for the occassion.
There were horsemen of various kinds. These are short-legged smaller horses. Neither saddles, nor any other instruments are used.augusztus 14, 2008
photos about Kurultaj
For a while my computer played a game of not beng able to display any of my August photos. It seems that some of those are lost forever. But since ALL my Kurultaj photos are still on my camera, I re-loaded them to my PC.- - -
to be continued...
augusztus 07, 2008
Kurultaj
This is an earlier photo of my husband doing the wall between the bathroom and the kitchen. My daughter is helping him by handing bricks up. There is a gap between the wall-in-the-making and the chimney where my daughter waits. That place is reserved for the oven, which is yet to be built.
július 29, 2008
I'll be interviewing my kids and will be sending the answer via email directly to Chris. I'm asking you to do the same: ask kids and support this movement.
For details, go over to Chris's blog at HERE.
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In the meantime, we (me and husband) are working on our house. DH is building the chimney and various inner walls, and also he's laying the floor on the second floor of the house.
I have just finished treating the wooden planks with a special, copper-based natural liquid against fungal infection and damn, my eyes hurt...Not only that liquid smells putrid and acid, it stings your eyes, nose and whatnot.
Their help involves cleaning the bricks, helping out with the chicken, harvesting tomatoes, cucumbers, parsley leaves, basil, and making salad. My son has learned using the pancake machine and has twice made a complete dinner for four people.
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Here are some more photos of our canoe trip. I hope you enjoy them.
This is what we see from the inside of our newest tent. Yes, we have more than one. Actually, we have three. Putting up this one only takes a minute.

My son and my daughter rowing in front of me. By the end of the third day, they both rowed quite well and sufficiently. My son is stronger, but if you take a closer look, it is my daughter who rows regularly. She likes to keep the rules :)

This photo was made in Sárospatak by my daugher.

The only time we had lunch in a restaurant. This is celeriac cream soup with croutons.
And yes, this is a family, too. White storks: landmarks of the Hungarian countryside.
július 23, 2008
A photo update
So, we've returned safely and survived canoeing.
The ferry on River Bodrog at the small village of Felsőberecki, between 47 and 48 kilometres. The zero kilometre is at Tokaj, where Bodrog meets River Tisza.
Boarding at Sárospatak. Please note the castle at the other bank.
The clock tower on the innermost yard of the castle. Some part of the castle is left ruined, some are restored - those serve as a museum.
The main entrance.
A railway bridge accross River Bodrog somewhere below Sárospatak.
Morning lights at Bodrogolaszi, where we camped the second night.
The second day was mostly sunny. This photo above was made hours before a short shower came. It depicts a canoe and a friendly bank with lots of summer sky.
This is me swimming in one of the backwater branches of Bodrog, near Tokaj.
We are approaching Tokaj, my daughter is in the front of the canoe, the other kid and is mother are our friends.
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